Thoughts Of A Mom

Reported by NST: 22/01/09 Thursday.

There was drama at the Sessions Court yesterday when an elderly woman refused to post bail for her daughter and her boyfriend who were charged with abusing her four-year-old son.
“I don’t want to bail them. I’ve seen them abusing the boy. Why did the man kill my grandson?” N. Saroja said in anger when asked by judge Zainal Abidin Kamarudin whether she wanted to bail her daughter.Before proceedings started, Saroja was seen crying when she told the two policemen in the court that she did not want to see her daughter at the court lock-up.R. Chittra Devi, 30, and R. Vigneswaran, 27, both unemployed, were jointly charged with abusing N. Iswaran by causing physical injuries at Chittra’s house E-32, Level 1, Taman Kok Doh, Segambut, in Sentul between November 2008 and Jan 7.They pleaded not guilty.
When Zainal Abidin asked where the child was, deputy public prosecutor Lee Keng Fatt said Iswaran had died.Lee also told the court that Chittra was a divorcee and Vigneswaran was her boyfriend. Iswaran was Chittra’s son from her first marriage.Lee proposed bail at RM10,000 each with one surety.When the judge asked Vigneswaran who would stand surety for him, he said none of his family members were in court as they were not informed that he would be charged today.However, investigating officer Assistant Superintendent Mohd Idris Omar told the court that Vigneswaran’s wife had been informed.“He is married with three children. When he was arrested at his home, his wife was there,” Mohd Idris said.Zainal Abidin fixed Feb 27 for mention.When the court adjourned, Saroja went to see both accused at the lock-up and she yelled at Vigneswaran: “You’re a dog! You’re a dog!” It was reported that Iswaran was hit with a hammer and burnt with a cigarette lighter because he had urinated on his bed about 5.35am on Jan 7.The boy was taken to Selayang Hospital by neighbours but was pronounced dead 20 minutes later.
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I cannot stomach how much cruelity this little child has endured! God has finally taken this child away! Why didn't anyone help this child?! How can the mother abuse her own flesh and blood!

She choose her boyfren over her son! I'm sorry i'm judging her but i cannot help it!
I'm a single mom too, i'm in a relationship too. yet i cannot ever imagine urting my child or allowing anyone to hurt my child! My flesh and blood comes 1st over anyone!

I suppose if she was being abused as well she may have allowed it to happen. I know i have no right to judge her or anyone and i am not qualified to talk about this too but there are other ways to act.

there was some i know who's a single mom too. she remarried. the step father was abusing her son she didn't want it to continue at the same time she didn't want to lose her husband she decided to give up her son instead knowing he will be better off. What she did and how she did it was not right in some of our eyes but she did the best to her capability. And what i read today it proves she did the right thing!

I pray i be a good mother and i pray my child will never be harmed ever by anyone and i pray she Will always be happy and healthy.
May God protect and bless all the little angels he put on earth. May all the innocent children especially those who are suffering right this very minute be saved.