God Loves you, Live Your Dreams!
Your God-Given Dream Is Meant to Come True.
Inside of each person there is a God-given dream that is meant to come true! God is a dreamer and He has created us in His image and with the ability to dream.
In order to live an abundant and prosperous life we are to use our ability to dream as a focal point, as we take action by implementing the ideas God gives us.
I believe God gives everyone ideas, but why are some people not pursuing their dreams? My theory is they may have had their hopes and dreams crushed too many times causing them to be fearful of dreaming any more. They have just adopted this attitude that "This is as good as it's ever gonna get, so let's just accept it."
Are you like that? Maybe you are afraid to get your hopes up in case "it doesn't work out." If it doesn't work out you will still be disappointed. You might as well get your hopes up and believe! Jesus said, "All things are possible to him who believes" (Mark 9:23). But, "all things being possible" is a conditional statement because it is dependant on your belief, or disbelief.
So how do you start dreaming again? Since a dream is nothing more than a thought, or a series of thoughts, you begin there; by controlling your thoughts (you must control your thoughts or they will control you). Stop thinking negatively and begin to believe for great things. Search deep down for what it is that gets you excited. Find it, believe in it, and confess it.
It is vital that once you establish what it is that you want, that you back it up with words. Jesus said in Mark 11:23, "He who believes that those things which he says shall come to pass, shall have whatsoever he says."
It's a shame that so many people don't "get" that Scripture. They will get out of bed tomorrow and do the same thing they did yesterday. Doing the same work, seeing the same people, and complaining about the same things. And then the next day, the cycle will repeat itself. Day after day, week after week, year after year, and all of a sudden, life on earth will be over, and they will not have experienced what God had intended for them all along.
That's why Proverbs 29:18 says, "Without a vision the people perish." There is a God-given dream inside you, but it may have just gotten buried under all the cares of your life. You must dig it out because you must absolutely have a vision, or a dream, for your life! Your dream is what will cause you to jump out of bed in the morning instead of waking up with anxiety and dread for the day ahead.
When you first wake up every morning, immediately begin to focus on your dream. If you don't, you'll find it very easy to become discouraged and start complaining about things. This is definitely no way to start your day! Your God-given dream is meant to come true!
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I have forgotten to dream,
I have forgotten how great God's love for me is.
I have forgotten to turn to him in all my problems.
I have forgotten He said "Ask, and you shall receive, Seek and you shall find, Knock and the door will be opened unto you."
So I'm reminding myself to "Ask, Seek & Find" and i will dream!
To you my friends, I hope you rekindle your dreams.
May God Bless you all of you and your loved ones it doesn't matter who you are you are children of God!
Single parent in Malaysia
About Me
- A.Parent
- Negeri Sembilan, Malaysia
- I'm a simple parent, living a real everyday life.
Wednesday, December 3, 2008
The one who blesses others is abundantly blessed; those who help others are helped.
Proverbs 11:25
In this time of giving let's open our hearts to those with less then ourselves.
To me the proverb above are not just about helping the needy in terms of the poor, sick, aged, orphaned, abandoned, etc.
I read and i get the message of speaking up when injustice is being served to those around me.
Every time you do What is right you will be prosecuted.
This is true, You will be the "black sheep, the trouble maker, the 'Auntie', the One who doesn't shut up!'
But it is up to you to speak up for what is right or keep quiet and let injustice continue?
To me if i see something i feel is wrong, and i keep quiet it means i am condoning it. then I'll be a hypocrite! Something i despise.
Speaking up is not easy though, I know, you will have to face many many tough situations but knowing that you tried to speak up for the truth and Justice, even if you fail, you did something. that in it self is a victory.
If i have to go down, let me go down fighting!
Some one asked me "why do you voice up it's dangerous! Think! you have a family, what will happen if they kick you out?"
Yes i have a family, Yes! i am afraid, but it is for them that i voice up, How do i teach my kid to be a good person if i show her, by my example, that I'm a coward or worse a hypocrite? What will she learn then?
So ......... I pledge to continue to 'stick to my guns and do what is right.
Proverbs 11:25
In this time of giving let's open our hearts to those with less then ourselves.
To me the proverb above are not just about helping the needy in terms of the poor, sick, aged, orphaned, abandoned, etc.
I read and i get the message of speaking up when injustice is being served to those around me.
Every time you do What is right you will be prosecuted.
This is true, You will be the "black sheep, the trouble maker, the 'Auntie', the One who doesn't shut up!'
But it is up to you to speak up for what is right or keep quiet and let injustice continue?
To me if i see something i feel is wrong, and i keep quiet it means i am condoning it. then I'll be a hypocrite! Something i despise.
Speaking up is not easy though, I know, you will have to face many many tough situations but knowing that you tried to speak up for the truth and Justice, even if you fail, you did something. that in it self is a victory.
If i have to go down, let me go down fighting!
Some one asked me "why do you voice up it's dangerous! Think! you have a family, what will happen if they kick you out?"
Yes i have a family, Yes! i am afraid, but it is for them that i voice up, How do i teach my kid to be a good person if i show her, by my example, that I'm a coward or worse a hypocrite? What will she learn then?
So ......... I pledge to continue to 'stick to my guns and do what is right.
I salute those you have voiced up for us in the past and continuing to do so.
What i do in my everyday life is small, it is not meaningless, Everything starts with just one person and one small step, and one day at a time.
I will voice up for in justice around me, at home, at work, at play, in my country, in this life.
The end.
Monday, November 24, 2008
MTUC you should ask the local people 1st if they want the foreign workers jobs!
Monday November 24, 2008
MTUC wants Govt to stop bringing in foreign workers
Compiled by TAN SIN CHOW, NURBAITI HAMDAN and A. RAMAN
THE Government should cancel the permits issued for foreign workers who have yet to enter into the country, Malaysia Nanban reported.
Quoting Malaysian Trade Union Congress (MTUC) secretary general G. Rajasekaran, the report said the job opportunities could be opened to Malaysians in view of the current world economic crisis.
He said there would be at least 30,000 job vacancies available each month if the inflow of foreign workers was stopped.
He said with 227 employment agencies nationwide, more foreign workers were being brought in and this created more social problems. He added that due to the economic crisis, it is expected that the unemployment rate will rise from 3.6% to 4%, or 5%.
6,059 complaints against civil service this year
> Tamil Nesan reported that the Chief Secretary to the Government Tan Sri Mohd Sidek Hassan was not worried about the complaints made against the civil service.
He said that these complaints provided an opportunity for the civil service to correct all flaws. The public has the right and freedom to voice their frustrations, opinions and suggestions about the civil services, he added.
He said there were 3,379 complaints in 2006, 5,437 last year and 6,059 till September this year.
Other News & Views is compiled from the vernacular newspapers (Bahasa Malaysia, Chinese and Tamil dailies). As such, stories are grouped according to the respective language/medium. Where a paragraph begins with a sub-heading, it denotes a separate news item.
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Just my two cents worth here! But i seriously think the MTUC should find out 1st what jobs these local people are willing to do before they make suggestions.
Where i know now finding 1 operator is like finding a needle in a haystack! And keeping them ..... that a whole different story.
No locals wish to do the job. Oh they will say anything in order to get the job but 50% of the time they do not turn up for even the 1st day of work!
Another 30% will likely disappear after the 2nd day of work. the 20% will leave after not even 20 days of work! I've been trying to fill in one operator's position for the past 2years and 2 months! We have given up!
Now I've personally interview all the candidates and taken a variety thinking one will stick.
I've taken Malays (lasted 1 month), Sabahans (lasted 2 months), Indians (lasted 6 months), in they 20's, 30's, early 40's, married ones, single ones, parents, childless ones, educated ones, uneducated ones, male, female, etc.....
It's useless, they say the pay is too small, but their salary expectation as written on the form is less!, or they are not qualified for higher salary.
One guy told me he needed a salary of Rm1000.00, yes i can understand that but he is only until std6 primary school. He cant speak English, he cant read a drawing, he can't use any measuring tools he's not willing to learn from the bottom but he wants to earn the higher position's salary even the assistant supervisor working here for 5 years has not reached that basic salary yet. I told him he would need to get a different job then because we cannot afford to employ someone like him on that amount.
What do we do?? Get foreign workers. They are reliable, trustworthy, they do their job, no hanky panky, they don't complaint, they don't take many MC's. even though they get harassed by locals (in their neighbourhood) they still walk or cycle to work daily, wet or dry weather. Never late.
Now tell me as a factory on budget due to the economy, how much do you feel the factory can afford to pay an inexperience local worker who may leave at anytime just because they don't like working in a dirty & hot environment?
So i feel MTUC you should better survey the locals 1st because I'm a local too and i do not think i will want to take a job with a salary of RM500 basic and allowance of RM 130 a month doing a foreign workers job it's not even enough to put decent food on the table!
MTUC wants Govt to stop bringing in foreign workers
Compiled by TAN SIN CHOW, NURBAITI HAMDAN and A. RAMAN
THE Government should cancel the permits issued for foreign workers who have yet to enter into the country, Malaysia Nanban reported.
Quoting Malaysian Trade Union Congress (MTUC) secretary general G. Rajasekaran, the report said the job opportunities could be opened to Malaysians in view of the current world economic crisis.
He said there would be at least 30,000 job vacancies available each month if the inflow of foreign workers was stopped.
He said with 227 employment agencies nationwide, more foreign workers were being brought in and this created more social problems. He added that due to the economic crisis, it is expected that the unemployment rate will rise from 3.6% to 4%, or 5%.
6,059 complaints against civil service this year
> Tamil Nesan reported that the Chief Secretary to the Government Tan Sri Mohd Sidek Hassan was not worried about the complaints made against the civil service.
He said that these complaints provided an opportunity for the civil service to correct all flaws. The public has the right and freedom to voice their frustrations, opinions and suggestions about the civil services, he added.
He said there were 3,379 complaints in 2006, 5,437 last year and 6,059 till September this year.
Other News & Views is compiled from the vernacular newspapers (Bahasa Malaysia, Chinese and Tamil dailies). As such, stories are grouped according to the respective language/medium. Where a paragraph begins with a sub-heading, it denotes a separate news item.
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Just my two cents worth here! But i seriously think the MTUC should find out 1st what jobs these local people are willing to do before they make suggestions.
Where i know now finding 1 operator is like finding a needle in a haystack! And keeping them ..... that a whole different story.
No locals wish to do the job. Oh they will say anything in order to get the job but 50% of the time they do not turn up for even the 1st day of work!
Another 30% will likely disappear after the 2nd day of work. the 20% will leave after not even 20 days of work! I've been trying to fill in one operator's position for the past 2years and 2 months! We have given up!
Now I've personally interview all the candidates and taken a variety thinking one will stick.
I've taken Malays (lasted 1 month), Sabahans (lasted 2 months), Indians (lasted 6 months), in they 20's, 30's, early 40's, married ones, single ones, parents, childless ones, educated ones, uneducated ones, male, female, etc.....
It's useless, they say the pay is too small, but their salary expectation as written on the form is less!, or they are not qualified for higher salary.
One guy told me he needed a salary of Rm1000.00, yes i can understand that but he is only until std6 primary school. He cant speak English, he cant read a drawing, he can't use any measuring tools he's not willing to learn from the bottom but he wants to earn the higher position's salary even the assistant supervisor working here for 5 years has not reached that basic salary yet. I told him he would need to get a different job then because we cannot afford to employ someone like him on that amount.
What do we do?? Get foreign workers. They are reliable, trustworthy, they do their job, no hanky panky, they don't complaint, they don't take many MC's. even though they get harassed by locals (in their neighbourhood) they still walk or cycle to work daily, wet or dry weather. Never late.
Now tell me as a factory on budget due to the economy, how much do you feel the factory can afford to pay an inexperience local worker who may leave at anytime just because they don't like working in a dirty & hot environment?
So i feel MTUC you should better survey the locals 1st because I'm a local too and i do not think i will want to take a job with a salary of RM500 basic and allowance of RM 130 a month doing a foreign workers job it's not even enough to put decent food on the table!
Friday, November 14, 2008
The Shit we some of us are in!
Friday November 14, 2008
Two single mums turn to prostitution to feed kids
TWO single mothers became part-time prostitutes to make ends meet after their ex-husbands failed to pay maintenance despite the Syariah Court order.
Worse still, the two women – a security guard and a cleaner – had to allow their colleagues to pay in instalments for “services rendered” to earn extra money.
These were some concerns raised by the Syariah Judicial Department at a seminar, reported Berita Harian.
Department director-general Datuk Ibrahim Lembut said that one of the women, a mother of six, turned to prostitution two months after her divorce.“She offered services to her colleagues and was willing to accept staggered payment because their salaries were low.
“The other mother, who works as a cleaner, also had to resort to this so that they could feed their children,” he said.
Ibrahim said the department’s Family Support Division had brought a case against the women’s former husbands.
The division is expected to take action against the two for failure to pay maintenance.
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I Highlight this story because there are many of us not only those who has gone through the syariah courts but the civil courts as well who are int he same boat!
Our country's laws do nothing to make it compulsary for the father to pay maintenance. Even the rates are so very low!
I remember my mom told her friend that in 1977 i was 6 yrs old then the judge set the monthly maintenance of RM200 for 3 kids per month! I was only 6 yrs old then, my sister was 5 and my brother was 3. I remember so vividly that my mom had this savage look of anger and frustration on her face because to top it of my dad's lawyer said he cannot afford that amount every month and asked to reduce it!
We had no house of our own. My mom worked 2 full time jobs and 1 part time job to make eds meet and in hopes of giving us a better life. My dear beloved mother worked until 2 weeks before she died!
And now i'm a single mother. My story will have to be told later. Right now i'm just too angry to write anymore, my memories are too vivid.
Two single mums turn to prostitution to feed kids
TWO single mothers became part-time prostitutes to make ends meet after their ex-husbands failed to pay maintenance despite the Syariah Court order.
Worse still, the two women – a security guard and a cleaner – had to allow their colleagues to pay in instalments for “services rendered” to earn extra money.
These were some concerns raised by the Syariah Judicial Department at a seminar, reported Berita Harian.
Department director-general Datuk Ibrahim Lembut said that one of the women, a mother of six, turned to prostitution two months after her divorce.“She offered services to her colleagues and was willing to accept staggered payment because their salaries were low.
“The other mother, who works as a cleaner, also had to resort to this so that they could feed their children,” he said.
Ibrahim said the department’s Family Support Division had brought a case against the women’s former husbands.
The division is expected to take action against the two for failure to pay maintenance.
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I Highlight this story because there are many of us not only those who has gone through the syariah courts but the civil courts as well who are int he same boat!
Our country's laws do nothing to make it compulsary for the father to pay maintenance. Even the rates are so very low!
I remember my mom told her friend that in 1977 i was 6 yrs old then the judge set the monthly maintenance of RM200 for 3 kids per month! I was only 6 yrs old then, my sister was 5 and my brother was 3. I remember so vividly that my mom had this savage look of anger and frustration on her face because to top it of my dad's lawyer said he cannot afford that amount every month and asked to reduce it!
We had no house of our own. My mom worked 2 full time jobs and 1 part time job to make eds meet and in hopes of giving us a better life. My dear beloved mother worked until 2 weeks before she died!
And now i'm a single mother. My story will have to be told later. Right now i'm just too angry to write anymore, my memories are too vivid.
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