Reported by NST: 22/01/09 Thursday.
There was drama at the Sessions Court yesterday when an elderly woman refused to post bail for her daughter and her boyfriend who were charged with abusing her four-year-old son.
“I don’t want to bail them. I’ve seen them abusing the boy. Why did the man kill my grandson?” N. Saroja said in anger when asked by judge Zainal Abidin Kamarudin whether she wanted to bail her daughter.Before proceedings started, Saroja was seen crying when she told the two policemen in the court that she did not want to see her daughter at the court lock-up.R. Chittra Devi, 30, and R. Vigneswaran, 27, both unemployed, were jointly charged with abusing N. Iswaran by causing physical injuries at Chittra’s house E-32, Level 1, Taman Kok Doh, Segambut, in Sentul between November 2008 and Jan 7.They pleaded not guilty.
When Zainal Abidin asked where the child was, deputy public prosecutor Lee Keng Fatt said Iswaran had died.Lee also told the court that Chittra was a divorcee and Vigneswaran was her boyfriend. Iswaran was Chittra’s son from her first marriage.Lee proposed bail at RM10,000 each with one surety.When the judge asked Vigneswaran who would stand surety for him, he said none of his family members were in court as they were not informed that he would be charged today.However, investigating officer Assistant Superintendent Mohd Idris Omar told the court that Vigneswaran’s wife had been informed.“He is married with three children. When he was arrested at his home, his wife was there,” Mohd Idris said.Zainal Abidin fixed Feb 27 for mention.When the court adjourned, Saroja went to see both accused at the lock-up and she yelled at Vigneswaran: “You’re a dog! You’re a dog!” It was reported that Iswaran was hit with a hammer and burnt with a cigarette lighter because he had urinated on his bed about 5.35am on Jan 7.The boy was taken to Selayang Hospital by neighbours but was pronounced dead 20 minutes later.
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I cannot stomach how much cruelity this little child has endured! God has finally taken this child away! Why didn't anyone help this child?! How can the mother abuse her own flesh and blood!
She choose her boyfren over her son! I'm sorry i'm judging her but i cannot help it!
I'm a single mom too, i'm in a relationship too. yet i cannot ever imagine urting my child or allowing anyone to hurt my child! My flesh and blood comes 1st over anyone!
I suppose if she was being abused as well she may have allowed it to happen. I know i have no right to judge her or anyone and i am not qualified to talk about this too but there are other ways to act.
there was some i know who's a single mom too. she remarried. the step father was abusing her son she didn't want it to continue at the same time she didn't want to lose her husband she decided to give up her son instead knowing he will be better off. What she did and how she did it was not right in some of our eyes but she did the best to her capability. And what i read today it proves she did the right thing!
I pray i be a good mother and i pray my child will never be harmed ever by anyone and i pray she Will always be happy and healthy.
May God protect and bless all the little angels he put on earth. May all the innocent children especially those who are suffering right this very minute be saved.
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Thursday, January 22, 2009
Tuesday, January 20, 2009
Tuesday January 20, 2009
DAP ‘owes non-Muslims an apology for supporting PAS’
KUALA LUMPUR: The DAP owes non-Muslims an apology for campaigning for PAS in the Kuala Terengganu by-election as it was tantamount to helping the Islamist party establish theocratic rule, said MCA political education bureau chairman Gan Ping Siew.
However, he noted that DAP’s support for PAS in Kuala Terengganu was rejected by the Chinese community there.
“The bureau is deeply consoled that the Chinese voters in Kuala Terengganu made a rational choice to support the Barisan Nasional.
“This indicates the Chinese there had not been blinded by DAP and had utterly rejected the ideology of theocratic rule in the country,” he said in a statement.
Gan accused the DAP of assisting PAS to realise the dream of theocratic rule just because it (DAP) wanted to gain power.
He said the DAP’s action would help PAS grow stronger and this was a disastrous threat to the future generations of Malaysians
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Now why should DAP appologies forPAS?
IS sounds very much like this MCA political education bureau chairman Gan Ping Siew guy is racist to me. Well he really makes it look like he's rasict with his remarks! Is he trying to tell the Chinese people in KT that Muslims are Bad? or Malays are bad? if this is this man's oppinion then i for one do not trust him in any leadership post!
BTW, i'm a malaysian and a catholic. my mom's of chinese heritage and my dad is of indian heritage., I'm very malaysian!
DAP ‘owes non-Muslims an apology for supporting PAS’
KUALA LUMPUR: The DAP owes non-Muslims an apology for campaigning for PAS in the Kuala Terengganu by-election as it was tantamount to helping the Islamist party establish theocratic rule, said MCA political education bureau chairman Gan Ping Siew.
However, he noted that DAP’s support for PAS in Kuala Terengganu was rejected by the Chinese community there.
“The bureau is deeply consoled that the Chinese voters in Kuala Terengganu made a rational choice to support the Barisan Nasional.
“This indicates the Chinese there had not been blinded by DAP and had utterly rejected the ideology of theocratic rule in the country,” he said in a statement.
Gan accused the DAP of assisting PAS to realise the dream of theocratic rule just because it (DAP) wanted to gain power.
He said the DAP’s action would help PAS grow stronger and this was a disastrous threat to the future generations of Malaysians
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Now why should DAP appologies forPAS?
IS sounds very much like this MCA political education bureau chairman Gan Ping Siew guy is racist to me. Well he really makes it look like he's rasict with his remarks! Is he trying to tell the Chinese people in KT that Muslims are Bad? or Malays are bad? if this is this man's oppinion then i for one do not trust him in any leadership post!
BTW, i'm a malaysian and a catholic. my mom's of chinese heritage and my dad is of indian heritage., I'm very malaysian!
I do hope people do not get seduced by this kind of talk from 'BS' politicians!
Monday, January 19, 2009
19/Jan/2009
This weekend, I bought a single mattress for my little one. It was because I’ve finally accepted the fact that she has grown up to a 4 yr old and no longer a little baby. I feel so sad like I lost my baby yet I’m so proud that she’s grown tall!
She was so very excited when she saw the new mattress. She has been sleeping in her baby bed on the floor right beside me for over a year now, For the past 3 months plus/minus a month her legs has been almost hanging over. Friday night she said she wanted to sleep on her own mattress by herself in her own room! It made me so proud and broke my heart at the same time! And ever since Friday night she’s has ‘abandoned’ my side and has been sleeping on her own in her room on her new mattress. While I’ve been getting very little sleep! (Waking up at every little sound, creeping into her room to check on her).
I’m so mixed up. You see, on one hand, I am so proud of her for being so independent and on the other, I try not to cry as I miss my baby girl so very much. I suppose I will have to adjust to this, as sooner or later she’ll start pushing further and further out of my protective arms. Soon she will be too embarrassed to be carried or cuddle by me and I dread that day.
On Sunday in while I was shopping with her for toiletries, she just suddenly hugged me and said “I love you Mama” and thinking of it today, I get so choked up. My little princess is a very loving caring person and I am so proud of her. She does many little things when you least expect it that shows what a great big heart she has in that tiny body of hers. I’m not saying she’s an angel ! Very far from it actually! She’s very prone to her tantrums, her kicking, sulking, whining, etc, but it never last long.
I feel terrible thinking about how sometimes I get so irritated with her for being naughty especially the times when I come home late from work and still has to fix dinner, and chores are yet to be settled and she gets naughty. Those times I scold her and punish her so quickly that may be she didn’t really deserve the punishment for the minor mischief she’s done? I am sorry for all those times I scolded her so soundly that it made her cry.
I just hope that she becomes a better person then I am and I hope she knows that I love her so much and that I cannot imagine what a bleak & empty place my life would be if she had never been born to me!
And if I forget to tell her today, I better mark it down now,… “Baby, Mama loves you so so so so very much, forever and ever, no matter what.”
Love Forever,
Mama.
This weekend, I bought a single mattress for my little one. It was because I’ve finally accepted the fact that she has grown up to a 4 yr old and no longer a little baby. I feel so sad like I lost my baby yet I’m so proud that she’s grown tall!
She was so very excited when she saw the new mattress. She has been sleeping in her baby bed on the floor right beside me for over a year now, For the past 3 months plus/minus a month her legs has been almost hanging over. Friday night she said she wanted to sleep on her own mattress by herself in her own room! It made me so proud and broke my heart at the same time! And ever since Friday night she’s has ‘abandoned’ my side and has been sleeping on her own in her room on her new mattress. While I’ve been getting very little sleep! (Waking up at every little sound, creeping into her room to check on her).
I’m so mixed up. You see, on one hand, I am so proud of her for being so independent and on the other, I try not to cry as I miss my baby girl so very much. I suppose I will have to adjust to this, as sooner or later she’ll start pushing further and further out of my protective arms. Soon she will be too embarrassed to be carried or cuddle by me and I dread that day.
On Sunday in while I was shopping with her for toiletries, she just suddenly hugged me and said “I love you Mama” and thinking of it today, I get so choked up. My little princess is a very loving caring person and I am so proud of her. She does many little things when you least expect it that shows what a great big heart she has in that tiny body of hers. I’m not saying she’s an angel ! Very far from it actually! She’s very prone to her tantrums, her kicking, sulking, whining, etc, but it never last long.
I feel terrible thinking about how sometimes I get so irritated with her for being naughty especially the times when I come home late from work and still has to fix dinner, and chores are yet to be settled and she gets naughty. Those times I scold her and punish her so quickly that may be she didn’t really deserve the punishment for the minor mischief she’s done? I am sorry for all those times I scolded her so soundly that it made her cry.
I just hope that she becomes a better person then I am and I hope she knows that I love her so much and that I cannot imagine what a bleak & empty place my life would be if she had never been born to me!
And if I forget to tell her today, I better mark it down now,… “Baby, Mama loves you so so so so very much, forever and ever, no matter what.”
Love Forever,
Mama.
Thursday, January 15, 2009
Thursday January 15, 2009
The Star.
Dog owners in Nilai must now get neighbour’s permission
SEREMBAN: Dog owners in Nilai must now get written permission from their neighbours to keep the animals in their homes.
This is the first time such a ruling has been introduced in Negri Sembilan following recent amendments to the Dog Licensing Bylaws 2008. The municipal council issues annual dog licences at RM20 each.
Council president Datuk Abd Halim Abd Latif said the ruling covers dogs which were three months old and above.
“For those who want to rear more than two dogs, their premises must be at least 1,000 sq metres.
“You are allowed to keep more than four dogs if the area is larger than 1,000 sq metres,” he said.
The affected areas are Nilai, Rasah, Ampangan, Mantin, Lenggeng, Pantai, Rantau, Labu and Senawang.
Abd Halim said the owners were duty-bound to ensure that their pets were not a nuisance to their neighbours such as the animals defecating in public places.
“The pets cannot be allowed to roam freely outside their compound,” he said, adding that officers would take away unlicensed pets.
Those caught without a licence could be fined up to RM1,000 or jailed not more than six months, or both.
The Seremban Municipal Council issues dog licences for RM10 each but has not asked owners to get their neighbours’ permission. Applicants are required to attach a vaccination card for their pets.
The state Veterinary Services Department issues licences for RM5 for those living in other areas.
Resident Melissa Wong asked why was there a need to get her neighbour’s permission to keep a dog.
“My neighbour’s cats defecate in my compound almost every day. Why doesn’t the council make it a requirement for cat owners to get their neighbour’s consent?” she asked.
P. Manimaran, who lives in Rasah Kemayan, said he may have to give up his dog because he was not on talking terms with his neighbour.
Those with queries can call the Nilai Municipal Council at 06-798 9099/9077.
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This is simply riddiculous! What is the purpose of this law? If they say it's because of the
"nuisance to their neighbours such as the animals defecating in public places.
“The pets cannot be allowed to roam freely outside their compound."
Then what about cats? Cats roam every where freely and defecates all over the place too! they cause a great nuisance to me when they steel intomy house to try to steal any food that's on my table!!
Another thing what if the neighbour doesn't allow us to have dogs? what do the dog owners do simply get rid of the dogs you've lived with for years?! GET REAL ! Just because you hate dogs that's your problem do ot try to use your power to kill all dogs?!
The Star.
Dog owners in Nilai must now get neighbour’s permission
SEREMBAN: Dog owners in Nilai must now get written permission from their neighbours to keep the animals in their homes.
This is the first time such a ruling has been introduced in Negri Sembilan following recent amendments to the Dog Licensing Bylaws 2008. The municipal council issues annual dog licences at RM20 each.
Council president Datuk Abd Halim Abd Latif said the ruling covers dogs which were three months old and above.
“For those who want to rear more than two dogs, their premises must be at least 1,000 sq metres.
“You are allowed to keep more than four dogs if the area is larger than 1,000 sq metres,” he said.
The affected areas are Nilai, Rasah, Ampangan, Mantin, Lenggeng, Pantai, Rantau, Labu and Senawang.
Abd Halim said the owners were duty-bound to ensure that their pets were not a nuisance to their neighbours such as the animals defecating in public places.
“The pets cannot be allowed to roam freely outside their compound,” he said, adding that officers would take away unlicensed pets.
Those caught without a licence could be fined up to RM1,000 or jailed not more than six months, or both.
The Seremban Municipal Council issues dog licences for RM10 each but has not asked owners to get their neighbours’ permission. Applicants are required to attach a vaccination card for their pets.
The state Veterinary Services Department issues licences for RM5 for those living in other areas.
Resident Melissa Wong asked why was there a need to get her neighbour’s permission to keep a dog.
“My neighbour’s cats defecate in my compound almost every day. Why doesn’t the council make it a requirement for cat owners to get their neighbour’s consent?” she asked.
P. Manimaran, who lives in Rasah Kemayan, said he may have to give up his dog because he was not on talking terms with his neighbour.
Those with queries can call the Nilai Municipal Council at 06-798 9099/9077.
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This is simply riddiculous! What is the purpose of this law? If they say it's because of the
"nuisance to their neighbours such as the animals defecating in public places.
“The pets cannot be allowed to roam freely outside their compound."
Then what about cats? Cats roam every where freely and defecates all over the place too! they cause a great nuisance to me when they steel intomy house to try to steal any food that's on my table!!
Another thing what if the neighbour doesn't allow us to have dogs? what do the dog owners do simply get rid of the dogs you've lived with for years?! GET REAL ! Just because you hate dogs that's your problem do ot try to use your power to kill all dogs?!
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